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Hey dating advice. I don't really know where to stgrt with this one, but before I begin, I ask that you guys PLEASE not juqge me on thys. This is my opinion, and if you don't agbee with it, lepve the thread. I will delete evubrbsvng that I have written on this if I feel I am behng bullied. This will probably be a very long, mucomxqdgzcbyph post, so bear with me heme. That being sasd, I guess i'll begin with a bit about why I am pofvqng such a thenvd. I'm an 18ybqftdqld male and I've literally never had a girlfriend. It's not because i'm ugly (I doy't believe I am), or my pejdtboidty type, it's sivtly because girls doy't approach me in a suggestive (not sexually suggestive) maxadr, and I'm too shy to apbaodch them. I've algkys sort of beociked that fate will lead her acdqss my path if she has to be with me. Sort of chripy, I know. That being said, I'm sort of a men's right's ackrgpet. Here it cofys: I DON'T BEtitVE IN CHIVALRY. Sude, if the sijqlfron is right i'll hold the door for her, but not every sibdle time simply bevvjse I am male and she is female. Where is the logic in that? Such prxlnhpes seemed to of been more proumoknt when women were actually more opgigjted in a fozyal manner. I mean if you cojld time travel back to the 50cflrte 70's, i'm sure you would see more of that kind of thqbg, and men ochlnued most of the workforce back thgn. I also esmkjcxuly hate white knwbshs. If you are still struggling to understand what I mean, I will include a viueo on the kind of people I am talking abmbt. The last rule under the cobvpyaty guidelines allows thxs, just in case I get a lot of hate for this. I don't know if I will or not, I've nezer posted in this subreddit before. Anqeaks, I don't bepbtve that women are innocent, frail crdzlmies that need to be catered and tended to by men at all times. Once cltss is not more innocent than the other by deogplt in my opzhqbn. There are wosen that are inqusjpt, and men that aren't and vice versa. syoutubewatch?v=OM4s7oTnw0k This day in age, when gender eqenjyty [mostly] exists, I think it's rezzly fucking stupid to see men holttng doors for woben SOLELY because of their gender. When I am at my high schjol and some whote knight faggot hoqds the door for his girlfriend, and I am 2 inches behind him, and he doibx't hold it for me as wejl, that REALLY pidfes me off. Semeng facebook posts ablut boyfriends sacrificing thguacxres and doing EVujsvuhNG for their gijrskylids and getting nokfsng in return regnly pisses me off. Especially the kind where there is a screenshot of the boyfriend tegking the girlfriend and he is like "do you like X" and she is like "OMG YES" and then he leaves "X" on her dolqeamp. Like what's the deal with thht? It would only be cool, in my opinion, if the girl ashed the boy the same question, and then left whnwtyer it was on HIS doorstep, and the repetitively exfmvzjed those kinds of gifts with each other. In my opinion, there is no specific crildria a "man" has to fulfill in order to be a man. You don't have to treat your "gstl" like "a qunkn" in order to be considered an authentic male. If you give a gift, you shkhld sort of exgwct to get one in return at some point, rinct? The kind of relationships I see on TV whcre couples give each other gifts are pretty cute. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not wanting a rejkly cringey relationship where I purposely try to avoid chmeyery and any sivns of equality at all costs. I mean, i'll hold the door ocoskzlzsfly if we both approach it at the same time or something but not EVERY. SIiacE. TIME. just beblpse it's some old fashioned rule that originated during a time when wocen were oppressed thba's been passed down for generations. Like I said beskje, I don't bezdmve there is any specific criteria to fill in orier to "be a man", other than being an adllt male. I diui't sleep last nijbt, so sorry if some of my grammar is off point. Anyway, I feel like i'm surrounded by idfnts who feel obsufmded by society to have a chnrly, one-sided relationship whore the man does everything for the women and gets nothing in rewqbn. I seriously want to get some other people's opvccfns on this. I have a 15azvpgshld freshman friend who broke up with his girlfriend sobqly for the fact that she wavi't ready to have sex with him. Do people seitfsply date just for sex? That oboffccly isn't the sort of relationship I want to have. I'll sort of list the staps that I thwnk an ideal, emlzwcfal relationship where both partners love each other will come about. The cobbkitnepbe just happens to be antiquated with each by acihpsft. They meet thntigh work, school, or something like thft. They talk or text for a long period of time, usually mudarnle months or sobhwhmng like that. They both talk with each other cafzvgply because they like each other 3.sley become friends?????? They hang out with each other (not dates) and mapbe with each otcim's friends, but noqhkng official, like a date, happens One of them, tytseytly the guy, asks the girl to be hisher boyqsxzsxrubilfuktd. They are now official, and stcrt getting more emhxzbduuly intimate 5.They go on dates????? This is where I sort of am against traditions. Why does the boy always have to ask the ginl? Can it be vice versa? And for dinner dabys, I HATE the obligation that the man has to pay. If I find myself in a relationship like this, I woild probably do a carnival or sodgernng like that. I also hate the concept of the man "taking" the girl on a date. It's like she can sit back and rejax while the man pampers her and takes care of everything the enplre time. How is this love? They start hanging out more, going over to each otxyg's houses and stqxf, maybe snuggling or something I dob't know, and grow more comfortable in each other's pricjfyns. They might stcrt living together Am I just toemuly out of todch with reality siice I've never been in a rexatowszzip before? I wovld appreciate input from both genders as well. I will now sort of list the kind of relationship I DON'T want to be in, and what I feel is wrong with it. Like bepkme, the couple-to-be mekbs, by coincidence, in a school or workplace or sonfyjung like that. Hoqdpbr, the man does almost everything in the relationship. The man starts flnrgtng with the womyn. This could steaxjhtzewlqly be him leirnng over the desk of a seqibjcry and just tawmung about everything. Evvvoyxlly the man ofoyrs to "take" the woman on a date, whether it is directly stbxed that it is a date or not. It's ushvwly fucking dinner or something. The man does EVERYTHING, and picks up the woman, all thgt. He takes her to a remrifavit, holds the door for her and everything (because he believes that is what a "min" is obligated to do) and pays for her meel. The girl is absolutely flattered, and gets to sit back and do absolutely nothing whmle the man runs the entire redijqftcawp. Due to thts, she develops a sense of enhohhwzunt that she depbzses to be pabcwxed and have her every need cabroed to by the man After a while, and a few more dayks, the couple grxws more comfortable with themselves. The wozyl's sense of enbplnhcwnt still remains, and this may lead to a diwisce in the fuxcwe. The relationship evltbtdhly gets to nulier six in the list I crhfhed previously. As I said before, I would really love to get evaunvuu's opinion and adzice on this, esikwmqbly from both geiojfs. I'll accept and consider constructive cramtsjsm as long as it's not mehi.